FAQ                                                                    

Here we will answer the questions we get asked the most.  This will be updated from time to time, based on activity we see in the forum.  Some questions will be answered more in depth in the articles section.

General

1. Do I really need a site/book/audio-course to get a girl
2. Don’t only losers with women read about pickup on the internet and buy books on the subject?
3. Can’t I get a girl by just being myself?
4. Will learning pick-up help me in other areas?
5. I don’t want to lay 1000 girls, all I want is to have a girlfriend!
6. What if other people find out I am learning how to pick-up girls?
7. There are so many different products! How can I decide which one is right for me?
8. Can I email you a question on pick-up? Do you provide phone coaching?
9. There’s this girl at work/school/church I like… How do I get her?
10. Am I better off buying a product or going to a seminar/bootcamp?

The Approach

1. Where do I go to meet women?
2. I hate bars/clubs!
3. I’m too scared to approach girls, how do I get over it?
4. She’s by herself, what do I say?
5. She’s in a group, what do I say?
6. They gave their opinion, now what?
7. I don’t want to use pre-scripted routines! I just want to go with the flow!
8. There are guys in the set! How do I approach if there are guys in there too?
9. How do I make the girls attracted?
10. Ok, we’re talking, the girls are laughing, now what?
11. So how do I know if she likes me?
12. She’s touching me, should I touch her back?
13. She said she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

Mid Game

1. Ok, she’s attracted, now what?
2. After qualifying her, what do we talk about?
3. How do I get her number?
4. How long do I need to talk to her before getting her number?
5. When do I call her? What do I say?
6. How do I prevent flaking?
7. The girl cancelled our plans, what do I do?
8. Where do I take her on a date?
9. Do I pay?
10. What tips can you give on having a good date.
11. She’s touching me, should I touch her back?

Miscellaneous

1. She asked me to buy her a drink, should I?
2. She started sex talk, that means I’m in, right?
3. She said she has to go to the bathroom, how long do I wait for her?
4. She just got a call on her cell phone and is gabbing like I’m not there, what do I do?
5. She/they were rude when I approached, how do I set them straight?
6. I’m talking to this girl and this friend of hers keeps trying to drag her away from me!
7. How do I deal with guys cockblocking me?